“Both on a date and after, people are like radio towers - always broadcasting information about how they feel and what they want. "You can absolutely read someone’s behavior to tell if they want to see you again,” he says. It's actually not that difficult, as Connell Barrett, Dating Transformation founder and executive dating coach, tells Elite Daily. Knowing that, can you ever really tell if you're on the same page as someone when it comes to wanting to hang out again? After all, it’s not uncommon to go on what felt like a great date in the moment just to have it fizzle out or completely disappear afterwards. You can easily get caught up in second guessing everything you thought went well. On the flip side, being able to tell if someone wants to see you again is another story. Clearly, when you know, you know, and trusting your instinct is usually the best bet. On average, it takes exactly 42 minutes and 29 seconds of meeting in person for someone to know if they want a second date, and 19% of people know within just 10 minutes, according to the dating app the Inner Circle.
And you generally know pretty quickly if you would be game for a second date or not. Sure, dating can be frustrating, but it can also be super fun if you and the other person vibe really well.
But what always kept me putting myself out there (despite the disappointing odds) was remembering the good dates. I used to go on a lot of bad first dates, ranging from "just OK" to truly awful.
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